I'd love to back up to when I first started my career as a wedding photographer. I was fresh out of business school, had zero experience in the photography industry, and was juggling a 50+ hour a week corporate job and this new dream of mine. Deep down, I felt like a fraud. I wasn't sure if anyone would pay me a dollar, let alone thousands of dollars to photograph them, but I never questioned the worth of my time.
"Attached is the wedding collections for the upcoming year. I want you to know that I am extremely flexible and will do whatever I need to do to fit your needs and your budget, so these by no means are rigid. Fire away an options or ideas that you may have and I am certain we can make something work!"
I literally said this in my first two years of business - I was basically telling people, "I have prices, but I'm not totally sure I am worth them, so I am inviting you to negotiate with me." Wait? What? Yes, that is word for word what I was sending to my clients when I first started. Whew, that makes me want to throw up a little. So when, why, and how did I stop offering discounts? Let me walk you through the lessons I had to learn in order to stick to my guns. Your value doesn't decrease because someone's inability to see your worth. It isn't our job to convince people we are worth it or worthy of their investment. Everyone will have budgets and priorities, that is up to them, ours are up to us. How we handle situations like this can craft the way that we are creating the life we dreamed of when we leapt into photography.
SOLUTION: By not offering discounts, I give every single client exceptional service. I value them, they value me, and they chose me to get the full experience (not just half of it.)
SOLUTION: I ran all of my figures through my Profitable Pricing Guide and broke down what my hourly shooting rate is and what my non-shooting work rate should be. It helped me have a formula to offer clients and helped me stick to my prices. When you know what you're worth, you stop discounting.
SOLUTION: I crafted a response to the "discount" email question that helps outline my prices, give options of more budget friendly options (for people who I wasn't a perfect fit for) and also explained that every client that books me gets a full experience and if I discount, I can't offer the experience I strive to offer. Here's the best part? People respect that!
I am not for everyone, I know that and understand that. Sticking to my guns didn't make people angry, I got respect (and I was more than willing to help them find the perfect photographer for them and their budget.) When you say "yes" to jobs that might not be the best fit for your business, you're actually saying "no" to everything else - like the clients willing to pay you what you're worth, time away with your friends and family, even time to just dream again. No doesn't have to be negative, it can be gentle and intentional.
In not offering discounts, I claimed back my value. I knew that I was worth every single penny and when I found the clients who could afford to pay me for my services, I would go to the ends of the earth to give them the best experience ever. Discounts aren't a bad thing, but as an entrepreneur, they can really affect the way you feel about your worth, your work, and how your clients value what you have to offer. Don't price yourself emotionally, price yourself based on your income goals, your skill level, and the amount of time you want to spend working (and make sure you're making more than the fry guy at the fast food joint.)
Your time, your skill, and YOU are worth it.
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Jenna is small-town Wisconsin photographer, painter, and educator with big dreams. Obsessed with: mac and cheese, puppies, and yoga pants. Most days, you’ll find her in yoga pants, working on the couch with a smile on her face and rescue pups in her lap -- or making googly eyes at her hunky husband Drew from across the room. She’s a wedding blogger, a watercolor artist, and an educator -- plus, she’s always got her bags packed for her next wheels-up adventure.